tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post4992616846253830600..comments2024-03-28T07:57:46.844+00:00Comments on Treasure Every Moment: PREGNANCY #2: My Hopes and Wishes for Second LabourTreasure_E_Mhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10567732562824036044noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-20798837057584653342017-11-03T02:41:34.733+00:002017-11-03T02:41:34.733+00:00Although poverty has been falling over time, all d...Although poverty has been falling over time, all data sources indicate that the gap in incomes and between Orissa and the rest of India has widened over the last twenty years. <a href="http://www.newstatesman.com/politics/2014/10/broadcasters-invite-farage-one-three-debates" rel="nofollow">guarantor loans</a><br />Richard Yateshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01055792573817167552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-62388873311956389542017-05-29T18:40:29.340+01:002017-05-29T18:40:29.340+01:00I didn't even know what the pethidine was unt...I didn't even know what the pethidine was until now, good luck with your second go around, i hope to get one one day :) Anosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10637196266202729425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-72168531757930044292017-05-29T11:03:44.795+01:002017-05-29T11:03:44.795+01:00Each birth has been different for my three. The fi...Each birth has been different for my three. The first was on gas+air and he was born pretty quickly with little tearing. My other two both were induced, which I think was unnecessary as we were barely at week 41. But all births went well. I appreciate that this isn't always the case. I think, if I can say anything, is to trust the signals your body is giving you. They are the best navigation system :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-76561582451598141092017-05-29T10:27:32.003+01:002017-05-29T10:27:32.003+01:00I am sorry you didnt have the experience you wante...I am sorry you didnt have the experience you wanted last time. It is worth doing a plan though as your body knows what it is doing this time and hopefully it will be a better experience. Always worth being prepared thoughKarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04913596958120846642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-85223912632603494982017-05-26T14:43:21.922+01:002017-05-26T14:43:21.922+01:00You know, I never really had one, well one that I ...You know, I never really had one, well one that I stuck too. It all went out the window, once actualy labour started, but it is always best to prepared.London Mummahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05600477191009839481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-2453657315932640692017-05-26T09:26:37.622+01:002017-05-26T09:26:37.622+01:00My first labour was tough! The second time around,...My first labour was tough! The second time around, I went with a more relaxed 'go with the flow' kind of attitude and everything went to plan. I think sometimes all we can do is just 'go with the flow'. All the very best with your second labour :) xJaynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16696429194100855064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-82915000348257612092017-05-25T21:25:09.593+01:002017-05-25T21:25:09.593+01:00I had vague birth plans but basically they said ge...I had vague birth plans but basically they said get the baby out as fast as possible and give me drugs when I ask for them!I said I didn't want an epidural but asked for one each time but it was always too late (in the last couple of minutes before baby arrived!)loopyloulaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07098606500168411245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-52191749278692881392017-05-24T20:50:43.097+01:002017-05-24T20:50:43.097+01:00I just asked Steve whether he cut the cord with Ma...I just asked Steve whether he cut the cord with Matilda (I do remember the midwives asking him if he wanted to) and he doesn't THINK so; it was all such a blur neither of us can remember!<br /><br />I hear you about epidurals - it sounds crazy to want that last moment of pain but I do feel like I missed out on something, not physically feeling Matilda's entrance into the world. Sarah Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06123634132136877282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-27034582140051169312017-05-24T20:04:38.390+01:002017-05-24T20:04:38.390+01:00I have never been pregnant but I think it is great...I have never been pregnant but I think it is great that you are sticking with the things you learnt last time round and avoiding things like pethedine which were not a good experience for you. I hope your labor goes well x Ana De-Jesushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12165853767093531146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-15034447468001641092017-05-24T16:19:20.495+01:002017-05-24T16:19:20.495+01:00Best of luck for the delivery - stay positive! I d...Best of luck for the delivery - stay positive! I did hypno-birthinhg for my second birth and ended up having my daughter in a pool in my living room with no medicine or pain relief at all. It took guts and determination but I dislike hospitals so much and I always say that's what got my through it!Lauretta Wrighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04419222143296239613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-20426309145625716332017-05-24T15:04:38.406+01:002017-05-24T15:04:38.406+01:00I had my son way back in 1999 - I didn't have ...I had my son way back in 1999 - I didn't have a birth plan at all, I don't even remember them being mentioned! Didn't have a great birth by any means, and didn't have more children either :'(<br /><br />I wish you the best for your second labour and birth xMichelle Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02786732761856671353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-53801153202327900842017-05-24T14:35:19.525+01:002017-05-24T14:35:19.525+01:00Your first labour sounds a lot like my wife's ...Your first labour sounds a lot like my wife's first. She had 26 hours of endurance and ended up in theatre with the tugging and stitching that that involves. Second time round was a home birth that was beautiful, smooth and as planned. All to say, I guess, is that the first doesn't define the second. Sounds like you've processed the first labour well - hope the second one goes more as planned :)Kevinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13531261530818311611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-54042221358764310802017-05-24T11:26:00.045+01:002017-05-24T11:26:00.045+01:00One thing to learn about birth plans and labour pl...One thing to learn about birth plans and labour plans is that they rarely go to plan. I hope yours is a lot easier this time xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17321510419400165520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-61470263298257579632017-05-24T10:05:26.963+01:002017-05-24T10:05:26.963+01:00I think hopes and wishes is definitely the way to ...I think hopes and wishes is definitely the way to go....my birth plan totally went out the window....wishing you all the best for your second labour lovely xMotherhood: The Real Dealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12982570590371441230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-81214665504772014162017-05-24T09:00:36.794+01:002017-05-24T09:00:36.794+01:00I didn't have a birth plan tbh I just went wit...I didn't have a birth plan tbh I just went with it, but if I had another one I would be like you and thinking about what I would do differently (if possible!). I had pethidine which really helped me & I would love husband to cut the cord next time as it wasn't possible with Sophie :( Hope all goes well for you!! xxlporterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11569870689569681196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2248244475983506646.post-29280017668327567952017-05-24T08:49:07.958+01:002017-05-24T08:49:07.958+01:00I'm sorry you didn't have a good pethidine...I'm sorry you didn't have a good pethidine experience. I know every woman and labour is different but I had a shot and a half with no bad effects at all. I was sick before I had it - likely from gas and air but I had that all the way through my labour and when I was put together after my c-section without being sick agaib. If baby is still back to back you may find that you don't get that urge to push either. Jenson went back to back at the end and I never had the urge. I just remember hanging over the end of the bed with a not very nice midwife telling me to push like I needed to poo for two hours rather than getting me the help I needed. Best of luck and I hope you get the birth you want :) A friend of mine had a water birth and it sounds amazing.A Cornish Geekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02431314511956926866noreply@blogger.com